Warning: Sexually Explicit content.

Legend for Consequences Suffered (CS):

  1. Inappropriate shame and guilt
  2. Childhood self-loathing
  3. Adulthood self-loathing
  4. Normalizing children to sexual questions by adult men. (Grooming)
  5. Sexual abuse. (Pedophilia)
  6. Impaired sexual relations after marriage.
  7. Years of recovery from childhood shaming.  Often lasting decades.
  8. Suicide Ideation
  9. Attempted Suicide
  10. Suicide of a loved one or friend.

#1035 Name Hidden. CS: 1,6

I would like to preface this with I am still an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I do not think my bishop was a…

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#1036 Name Hidden. CS: 1,3,5

Posting this mostly for validation and because part of me wants to scream FUCK YOU to the men who interview anyone about their chastity and worthiness. Today I was triggered…

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#1037 Name Hidden. CS: 4

I never had a bishop ask me explicit questions until I was 17. My next door neighbor who I babysat for became my new bishop. I went in to get…

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#1039 Name Hidden. CS: 8

My husband and I were recently married and wanting to be sealed. He was excommunicated and coming back to the church and I had just been through a divorce. My…

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#1040 Name Withheld. CS: 1,2,3,7

I grew up in the church and remember never properly being taught about sexuality until my teenage years. Even then it were very vague attempts. It always seemed as though…

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#1042 Name Hidden. CS: 1,4,5,8

March 10, 2019 Dear President Nelson, I’ve heard that it doesn’t matter if I write you or not because my letter will get kicked back to the Area 70 that…

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#1043 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,4,7,8

My first memory of worthiness interviews was being terrified at 7 when masturbation was explained to me in graphic detail but my parents insisted that I go ahead and be…

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#1046 Name Hidden. CS: 1

I was a young adult when I joined the church.. fast forward and I made a friendship with an older man in the church who helped teach me, guide me,…

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#1047 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,4

These grown white men need to stop asking masturbation questions to kids they barely know!! Crazy racist cult! I grew up Mormon and am happy not to be associated with…

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#1048 Name Hidden. CS: 5

I found out that one of our members (The former bishop )in our ward ended up raping a 16 year old girl. I had concern about this man being around…

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#1049 Name Withheld. CS: 1

I had joined the church later in my life as a young single mom. My son had the opportunity to go to a temple trip with the rest of the…

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#1050 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,8

For over 7 years I was had meetings with my bishop/stake president/mission president at least monthly to talk about my masturbation “addiction”. Most of them were kind and did not…

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#1052 Name Withheld. CS: 1,4

I am woman in my late 20s who has grown up in a very devout and large LDS family in Northern Europe.Even thought there are smaller amount of Mormons in…

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#1053 Name Hidden. CS: 4

When I was 12, I was interviewed by not the bishop but someone else in the bishopric. Alone in a room with the door closed, I was asked if I…

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