I had joined the church later in my life as a young single mom. My son had the opportunity to go to a temple trip with the rest of the youth and was going to be leaving Canada and going to the US for the first time.
I found out that he would be staying with an LDS family along the way (a family I have never met or heard of). So naturally I asked the bishop If I could have their phone number and that It would make me feel better.. he gave me a strange look and said “sister, he is a bishop.” As if being a bishop or a member means there is nothing to worry about. He made me feel stupid and crazy for even asking.
I later found out that the other boys who live down in the household introduced my son to pornography.