#663 Name Withheld. CS: 1,2,3,4,6,7,8
When I was seventeen, the stake executive secretary knocked on the door of my Sunday School class during the second hour. He said the Stake President would like to meet…
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Legend for Consequences Suffered (CS):
- Inappropriate shame and guilt
- Childhood self-loathing
- Adulthood self-loathing
- Normalizing children to sexual questions by adult men. (Grooming)
- Sexual abuse. (Pedophilia)
- Impaired sexual relations after marriage.
- Years of recovery from childhood shaming. Often lasting decades.
- Suicide Ideation
- Attempted Suicide
- Suicide of a loved one or friend.
#662 Name Hidden. CS: 1,3,4,5,7,8
My mom had remarried,I was 15. I was trying to make friends in our new ward. I was sexually active. My mom set up an appointment with the bishop. My…
#661 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,6,7,8
A very close friend told me that after she’d read just a few of these stories, it threw her into weeks of depression. After nearly 50 years she still hadn’t…
#660 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,4. Other: Unnecessary exposure of content
Shortly after turning 12, I was interviewed by my bishop for a temple recommend. The questions at first were of no harm or were not causing any discomfort, but it…
#659 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,7,8,9
I have three major incidents in my life within the church that I feel strongly compelled to share. I want my story to be heard so that it can be…
#658 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,4,6,7
I have two stories. When I was preparing to serve a mission, I was asked insanely invasive questions by a well-meaning priesthood leader. I lied out of fear, but was…
#657 Richard B. CS: 1,2,3,6,7. Other: Disproportionate fear of sexual diseases.
First, I must declare that I have OCD so fear of diseases and contamination has a psychological dimension, not just a religious one. I can’t blame the LDS church for…
#656 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,5,6,7
At 7/8 years old I was introduced to the sexual side of myself. I won’t tell that story, but as a young child, I only knew that what I was…
#655 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2
I recieved yearly worthiness interviews to go to the temple. Around 13 when puberty hit I discovered masturbation. Ultimately because of the church’s strong emphasis not to participate in the…
#654 Name Hidden. CS: N/A
I’ve been the therapist for hundreds of people who have expressed feelings of shame, guilt, embarrassment, and self-loathing after having had interviews with their LDS Bishops. And I’ve also been…
#653 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,9,10
When my brother Keith was in high school he had an interview with our local bishop, who was a cruel, condescending and judgmental person. Keith confessed to some sexual activity…
#652 Name Withheld. CS: 3,7,8
In college, my boyfriend and I started experimenting sexually and I never felt guilty about it, but I knew that I should probably go talk to my bishop. While my…
#651 Christi J. CS: 1,2,3,4,5,6,7. Other: Complex PTSD, Inexplicable Nightmares, Lack of Trust
Approximately 50 years ago, I was molested and raped as a young girl in a small Mormon farming community in SE Idaho. It has taken years for me to realize…
#650 Name Hidden. CS: 1,3,6
My mission president’s monthly interviews with sister missionaries in my mission were emotionally abusive and left me spiritually debilitated and suspicious of all priesthood leadership and closed-door interviews. Our president…
#649 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,4,7
I grew up in Utah and went to a pediatrician named Glen C. Griffen who had authored numerous books about maturation and sexual development published by LDS publishers which I…
#648 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,6,7,8,9,10. Other: Mental Illness
It has taken a lot of thought and courage for me to even begin to share my experience. I have only ever shared the consequences I have suffered as a…
#647 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,6,7,8,9
I was raped by a stake president’s son when I was 14 (in 1994). The bishop did not let my mother come into the interview she arranged (which she did…
#646 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,4,5,6,7
My three sisters and I were abused by my mom’s Mormon best friends sons for many years. When the abuse was discovered, our mother shamed us into KNOWING that it…
#645 Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,4,6,7,8
I was born/ raised in the church, and growing up I took my religion very seriously. I was attending a Young Single Adult Ward, and I’d been carrying around tremendous…
#644 CS: Name Hidden. CS: 1,2,3,4,7,8
Self loathing is a good basis here. Starting adult life with the mindset that hating yourself is healthy and righteous messed me up. I’ve since learned that I am worth…