Self loathing is a good basis here. Starting adult life with the mindset that hating yourself is healthy and righteous messed me up. I’ve since learned that I am worth loving and that meeting with the old dude that gives me tremendous anxiety to talk about masturbating isn’t necessary to my happiness. I don’t need to participate in a shame culture and cut my hair to change people’s lives and spread love. Hope y’all can feel the same. 💙
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