When I was about 16 years old, I remember my bishop called our class of 20+ people to get there temple recommends. We had to all line up in the hallway and he called us one by one to get them renewed.
I knew I wasn’t worthy of one and it would be awkward to go in there and come out without one, so I hid in the bathroom. I texted my trusted friend to let me know when they were all done. As soon as they were done I left the bathroom and went back to class. We were a couple minutes into the lesson when all of the sudden my bishop came in and called me out in front of the class saying “_____, you need to come meet with me”.
Humiliating. Now everybody in my class knew I wasn’t worthy and I was shamed. I went into his office and he asked if there was a reason why I didn’t come in? I told him no and he started asking me about my sexuality in detail and I told him yes I am sexually active and he responded with “you must repent and can not take the sacrament until you’re clean and you can not see you’re boyfriend anymore, he is just using you for your body”. He made me feel so dirty, and feel as if I was a slut/object!
Afterwards, he kept calling me into his office weekly “checking up” on me and each time asking me questions about me and my boyfriends sexual relationship in detail..