When I was 16 I told my mia-maid leader that I had sex and had smoked marijuana. I expected her to keep it private but she told me she would tell my parents if I didn’t talk to the bishop. I went into his office alone to confess and he asked me how I liked to have sex and if I “self sexually abused” myself. He told me that I had personally caused Jesus to suffer. I was scared and humiliated.