I was ~middle school age when my Mormon leaders started bringing this stuff up and asking me about the same stuff.
Wish I’d known back then how messed up it was.
In my case. My father drove me late at night to have an “emergency interview” with our Mormon bishop when they found some “magazines” in my room [I was an adolescent pre-teen]. I got to “confess” and answer a lot of questions about masturbation habits, etc…
Here I was barely a teen and I was in a strange man’s house (who I barely knew) with him asking questions about my sex life…
At the time I didn’t know what to do or how to handle it. I had been taught that to lie would “thurst me down to hell,” so humiliation was the only option.