When I turned 12 I had a really cool bishop. During interviews he would basically say “I don’t want to know what you did just don’t do it again”. He was awesome. Then when I turned 16 they released the cool bishop and put in a bishop that was the complete opposite. This guy wanted to know everything. Even the stuff that had been “taken care of” with the previous bishop.
I was a pretty regular, normal teenager in that I had been fairly active sexually. I almost always had a girlfriend and we did normal teenager stuff but I was still a virgin. I felt pretty guilty about this stuff and decided I needed to confess to the bishop so I could go on a mission. He wanted to know every dirty little detail. He asked me questions like whether I had used my fingers on my girlfriends and if so how many fingers were used? Did they like it? Did I like it? Did either of us orgasm? How many times did this happen? He asked about oral sex in a very detailed way. What were their names, phone numbers and where did they live? I figure he wanted to tell their bishops but fortunately for me none of them were LDS. He wanted to know everything. He asked so many invasive questions it’s almost unbelievable to think about now.
Anyway I basically came out of that interview feeling like the worst human alive. It messed me up for a long time even after I was married in the temple. I was afraid of sex in many ways because I had been taught that it was so sinful in my youth.