I am a female, and was around 14 when this happened. My home ward had (still has) a HUGE problem with gossiping and I was often the topic of gossip among some of the adult members in my ward. I was called into the bishops office for a temple recommend interview and he asked all of the normal questions. He then asked me if I lived the law of chastity and I responded “Yes”. He didn’t skip a beat and looked me straight in the eye and asked if I was sure.
This may not seem like a huge deal, but I had never even held hands with a boy at this point in my life and him asking again, told me he didn’t believe me. It made me feel so much shame because I made me wonder what was being said about me (a CHILD) to make him think I was lying. It was very damaging knowing that he thought that of me, even though I was doing my best to be a good little Mormon. I still to this day have issues in my marriage with sex because of the shame this cult made me feel when I was doing NOTHING. Obviously there is more to why I left the church, but on any level, it’s extremely inappropriate for a grown man to ask ANY child about their sex life.