I was abused by my stepdad during my teen years. Im not sure of the callings at the time but he had been Elders QP, on the branch presidency etc. Of course i was manipulated into keeping it quiet.
It came out when I was 18 and soon to go on my mission. I was interviewed by the bishop, nothing more was ever done about it. I always felt bad, embarrassed about it and shame. I remember always being taught that if you don’t forgive you are committing the greater sin. I found this hard. Eventually as a man in my early 30s, I decided to contact my step dad again. I’ve never brought it up with him and he pretends nothing happened. I don’t feel any better by trying to follow this principle. I’m angry now that the bishop seems to have protected the abuser. I was never offered counselling and I’ve never really dealt with it properly to this day.