I was 14 when I moved into a new ward. I was as innocent as they come. My bishop called me in for an annual birthday interview. The topic of oral sex was brought up. It wasn’t an add on question from the law of chastity. It seemed totally random. I had no idea what oral sex even was so I left that interview feeling wierd. When I was 16 I came into that same bishop to repent of some things I had done with my boyfriend. He asked very probing questions. Like where did you go? Were you on top? Clothed, not clothed, etc? And then told me I was more of a sinner because I had participated in oral sex over intercourse. He said I wasn’t worthy to use the atonement. He also told me that since I am a shy and quiet person that I am prideful. He told me that he could tell from when I first moved into his ward( I was 14) that I didn’t have the light of Christ in my eyes. I left feeling so down and depressed. I felt like the most unlovable person and lower than dirt. I now realize that he was totally psycho and was very inappropriate. I will never allow my children to go through what I did.