When I was applying to BYUH, I had the Stake President ask me if I obeyed the law of chasity. I replied yes. Then he asked if I was a virgin. I told him I was raped and I was not. Then he told me to go back to my bishop to speak with him about it and did not approve my endorsement.
Then when I spoke with my bishop he asked if I had caused it in any way. It blew my mind he had the nerve to even ask me that. I started to yell at him, he then told me I shouldn’t raise my voice but he made me feel horrible because apparently he is the judge of Israel. I never got my endorsement from these people.
Thinking that bishops representing the YSA for the school would be better, so flew to Hawaii. I went to the Hawaii Bishop to speak to him about getting an endorsement. I told him I went to the police before coming to Hawaii to file a police report on my step father who sexually abuse me. He asked me if I had sex with him. My answer was yes. I even told him the abuse happened when I was 7 to 8 years old. He said he couldn’t endorse me and I needed a repentance process and asked if I did one with my past bishops. It shocked me out of this world. In fact, this is what I told people about these issues I had with my bishop. But no one believes me and gives excuses that some people wants to be raped. It’s a horrible experience.