I was not asked inappropriate questions by bishops/counselors, but I still suffered incredible guilt and self-loathing because of the general process of worthiness interviews. I was terrified by the prospect of these interviews.
As a young child, I thought I’d be excommunicated for fighting with my sister. As a teen, I thought I’d be excommunicated for kissing a boy. You can see a pattern here!
I don’t know why I felt this way, even after multiple interviews wherein I was never excommunicated, but the feelings of terror remained. I was always very fearful of worthiness interviews and always dreaded them, even when I had no sins whatsoever to confess.