During an interview with a bishop (approximately 14 years old), I was asked if I “practiced self abuse”. I had no idea what that even meant. I remember talking about it at dinner with my parents that night. I thought it was strange that the bishop thought I physically abused myself. Years later I googled self abuse and finally realized what he was trying to say. It sickens me that he asked such a question behind closed doors. I will NOT allow such questions of my children.