Me and my girlfriend at the time, started to experiment with each other and use to touch each others private parts. This went on for a few months. The guilt and shame that came upon me was over baring. I finally had to confess. So I talked with my girlfriend who was also lds, and I forced her to go in with me and repent or I’d be breaking up with her.
So there we are sitting in a room, all 3 of us. I confess to what we did by saying we weren’t obeying the law of chastity. He then proceeded to get details to determine how “serious” It was. He started asking “did you have intercourse?” “Did you have oral sex?”
“What part of the body did you touch?” “Was it over her pants or under?” “Was it over or under her panties?” “Did you touch her breast?” Then he proceeded to ask my girlfriend the same questions regarding me.
At the time I thought nothing of the questions. He was “Gods mouthpiece”, who was I to question him. Looking back it was sexual grooming and extremely inappropriate. This former bishop is now currently a stake president.