When I went to my bishop for the sealing recommend as required for a temple marriage the bishop gave me unsolicited sexual advice which included a lengthy speech on the topic of how women’s sexual arousals are like crock pots and men are frying pans and how important it is to understand that fact and work through the differences, and also the counsel that my marriage would be stronger if I never turned down my husband when he asked for sex. Looking back I’m horrified, but I was too young and naive and infantalized to stand up to him or report it.
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