When I was high school age, I had been involved in some sexual actions with a person of the opposite sex. Because of this, I felt Guilt and went to repent to my bishop. I was extremely uncomfortable, and it only got worse when he started probing for intimate details about how far we had gone, positions, amount of times we had “sinned”, etc. He also asked where each incident took place. I had to look an adult and grown man, a stranger(essentially) in the eye and give him intimate details about my personal sexuality. Details I was Too ashamed to even review with the boy I had Done them with. It was extremely uncomfortable and i felt violated afterward. In high school I had a handful of friends tell me similar stories. One even referred to her bishop as a “pervert” for needing details and felt more violated than I did. She never went back after that, it was a difficult process.