While my story may not be as traumatizing as others shared in this movement, I feel that it is still worth sharing. During an interview for a temple recommend, I was asked the standard question about obeying the law of chastity. When I gave the answer that I was obeying, the bishop decided to press…
When I was in High School I fooled around with a guy in my ward. Stuff had happened a bunch of times and I knew I needed to talk to my bishop about it. I set up the appointment and went in. He asked me what had happened. I told him. He wanted more detail.…
Sexual abuse needs to be reported not only about what’s going on behind closed doors in the bishops office but also abuse that’s reported “to” bishops. I was sexually molested from age 6 to 13 suffered at the hands of my uncle. I’m nauseous just thinking about it. At 16, I decided to tell my…
When I was 17 years old, I went to my bishop to repent for having sex with my boyfriend. My bishop asked for explicit details about what I had actually done, and whether or not I had done those things before. I told him. I didn’t know I had a choice. I didn’t realize how…
I was raped my first semester at BYU. My on-campus bishop was the one person I told of my experience, in desperate hopes to obtain some sort of peace for my broken heart. He told me I’d need to stop taking the sacrament, he handed me a copy of The Miracle of Forgiveness, and before…
I’m deeply saddened reading these stories. Although mine isn’t on the severity scale as some of those on here, I think the church needs to know that this happens everywhere. They are not one in a million. This shame happens to EVERY child in EVERY congregation in our church. In some degree. Just putting a…
There is so much. I can not write it all. I was beaten for masturbating. I was snuck up on if my bedroom door was closed or in the shower to “catch me in the act” so I could be beaten again if caught masturbating. I was raped by a guy I had gone on…
I do not have a terrible story to report. However, I have twice as an adult been asked inappropriate sexual questions that left me feeling disturbed and confused. Children should never be put in such a position of vulnerability. Church leaders must surely listen and respond.
When I was a member of the church, I was 28 years old, single and was a recent convert. For the members, I was old. So, they were always offering me members to marry. I was preparing myself to serve a mission and I was not interested in marry anyone, just because it was convenient.…
I was asked specifically at 13 if I masturbate (had never heard the term before), and if I watched pornography (had heard the word, but didn’t know what it meant. Bishop got to explain them to me… Now because of his explanation, I learned I had been masturbating for 7 years (discovered it on my…