I was 15 and had never kissed a boy. In tithing settlement my bishop asked me if I had had sexual relationships with anyone. I said no. He then asked if I performed oral sex. I know I was 15. However, I didn’t even know what that was. I left feeling ashamed and gross. I never told anyone until about a year ago (now 42). These questions must stop and it is not a sacred opportunity for whoever the bishop is.