My 15 year old daughter was struggling with my divorce and some other issues. She had spoken to me about becoming sexually active and as a parent we decided to talk to her dad about it.
Her dad took, forced, her right away to speak with the bishop and confess her sins. She refused to tell her bishop anything and so he started asking her questions, did she orgasm, did her partner orgasm, did the boy touch her breasts, what did the boy do with his hands and on and on. She refused to answer and went home crying.
Her dad continued to force her to go to church and the bishop would pull her aside and comment on her skirt being too short. The bishop would also call her and send her texts of scripture.
All of this is extremely inappropriate and grooming behavior. I work for child protective services and when I found out I was livid. I called the stake president and expressed my concerns and explained what grooming behavior is and how this bishop had all the red flags.
I believe it was two weeks later the bishop was released. I’m thankful that someone actually did something. I’m sure my daughter was not the first and he may have done things to other girls.