When I was 17 years old I was sitting in Young Women class. I got pulled out of the class without my moms knowledge to talk to the bishop behind closed doors. At first the bishop was nice he asked me how I was doing. When he asked me if I wanted to attend the youth temple trip this coming weekend and when I said no, things changed. I did not want to go on a youth temple trip because I had a lot of homework today. Well the bishop thought that that must mean I had sex and felt unworthy to go and that what I said must have been a weak excuse. I was a late bloomer and didn’t even have breasts. No boyfriend and no sex.
Anyway bishop even talked to my mom that he thought I had sex and was unworthy! Luckily my mom was smarter than that to just believe that I had a boyfriend and asked me about it. I explained to her that school was very hard and that I would get a really bad grade if I did not study the whole weekend as the test was very hard. I told the story my non member dad and he said it is non of the bishop business weather I have sex or not. I did not go on the temple trip and wrote a good grade.