When I was in preschool, several kids and I used to play a game called “show me your bare bumb”. It was a secret game we played with each other and clearly a normal developmental thing . My own son has told me he and several preschool buddies showed each other their privates in which bathroom. I see nothing wrong with it.
When I was 8 years old, I went in for my baptismal interview with my bishop. He asked me all kinds of sexual questions when I was 8. I felt like I was evil because I had played these games with my fellow preschool buddies. I felt such shame. These shaming interviews continued. I remember one bishop who just was so old and repulsive that it almost made me sick to my stomach when he started asking me if I masturbated. I actually walked out of that interview.
All the bishops I was ever forced to be interviewed by asked me creepy sexual questions. It seemed to be never ending. This shaming continued until I was old enough to know to refuse to go into interviews and refuse to go to church. I felt like this was a way to protect myself. It worked.