When I was about 21 I was repenting for premarital sex to go on a mission. _______, who I guess is a leader in the Boy Scouts now, asked me what positions we used, if I climaxed and how many times, and asked me to describe oral sex. He wrote everything down and kept a file on me. He had a whole file cabinet with such files from other people. When I asked about it he said he had to write it down so he wouldn’t forget because he was working with many people. Session after session he would look at his notes and ask me to describe the details again, even though he had it recorded already. By the end of the process he said he wasn’t going to let me go on a mission. They had just raised the bar. He said he was “making an example of me.” He really said that.
I was not a child at the time this happened but I defiantly feel like this is sexual harassment.